monster, it hasn’t been pretty. Jealousy can lead to distrust, and the only thing worse than not trusting your spouse is feeling like you’re not trusted by your spouse. What’s interesting about jealousy, too, is that so much of it is based on the baggage you bring into your current relationship, whether you like it or not. For instance, Giuliana never considered herself to be a jealous person until one of her exes betrayed her in a hurtful and public way. The ex’s insecurities wreaked havoc on their relationship, and when it ended, the situation left an uneasy impression on Giuliana, who then brought it into our marriage. As for Bill’s hot button topics, money and family catalysts can make him feel envious at times.