A lot of what we call luck boils down to us being in groups that don’t face discrimination and other problems. I don’t feel guilty about being a man but I do realise that it has certain benefits that women don’t get and certain opportunities I get that women have to fight much harder for. This doesn’t mean I’m a bad person. But denying that this is the case in order to preserve my illusions makes me an ignorant person. And, with a few modest exceptions, I generally prefer not to be ignorant.